I hope you enjoy these gift Miguel Ruiz quotes, and that if you read them, you feel more in tune with the beauty and mystery of this existence.  « A relationship is an event; two individuals meet and excite each other. Like any event, length and quality depend on the quality of attention from both parties. A romantic relationship, like the others, can survive indefinitely. Respect is the key. Driven by old habits and emotional dramas, a union will fail and become an insatiable monster that eats love and turns it into a thousand investments and fears. 3) Don`t make assumptions – Find the courage to ask questions and express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as possible to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With this agreement, you can completely change your life.  « Only by taking stock of our agreements will we discover all the conflicts in our heads and eventually emerge from the chaos of the mitote. » [« mitote – « illusion »] I have organized these quotes based on the themes listed below. This way you can jump to themes that are especially resonant for you. « We feel the need to be accepted and loved by others, but we cannot accept and love each other. The more self-esteem we have, the less self-abuse we will have.
Self-usurpation comes from self-denial, and self-admonition occurs when one has an image of what it means to be perfect and never measure that ideal. Our image of perfection is the reason why we reject ourselves; That is why we do not accept who we are and why we do not accept others as they are. Don Miguel Ruiz, The Four Agreements  « If someone doesn`t treat you with love and respect, it`s a gift if they walk away from you. If that person does not leave, you will certainly endure many years of suffering with him or her. Leaving may hurt for a while, but your heart will eventually heal. Then you can choose what you really want. You`ll see that you don`t have to trust others as much as you have to rely on yourself to make the right decisions.  « To protect our emotional wounds, and for fear of injury, people create something very demanding in the head: a great system of denial. In this system of denial, we become the perfect liars. We lie so perfectly that we lie ourselves and we even believe in our own lies. We don`t realize that we lie, and sometimes, even though we know we lie, we justify lying and excuse lying to protect us from the pain of our wounds. The system of denial is like a wall of fog before our eyes that blinds us to seeing the truth. We wear a social mask because it is too painful to see us or let others see us as we really are.
And the refusal system makes us believe that everyone believes what we want from us. We will erect these barriers for protection, to keep others away, » The way to stop ourselves from making assumptions is to ask questions. Make sure the communication is clear. If you don`t understand, ask. Have the courage to ask questions until you are clear about what you can be, and even then you don`t think you know everything there is to know about a particular situation. Once you hear the answer, you don`t have to make assumptions because you will know the truth. Each chord focuses on the idea of developing first and training your mind so that you can see the world in a new light and interact with it in an optimal, more honest and fulfilling way. Below you will find a summer of each of the four agreements followed by our list of 10 quotes from the four agreements. Write down every quote that makes you think and let us have some of your thoughts (or favorite quotes from the book) in the comments section below! Have a good time!  « People hunt for love. We feel that we need this love because we believe we have no love, because we do not love ourselves. We chase love in other people like us and we expect them to have love for them when these people sound